Monday, March 7, 2011

Bad News

Sorry I haven't posted in several days.  We had a lot thrown at us the last few days.  For those of you who have read my blog for a while, my partner was dealing with stage 3 melanoma about 4 months back and went through a surgery where her lymph nodes were removed from her neck.  All has been well.  She runs and mountain bikes all the time, has lots of energy and feels good.  She goes back every 3 months for pet scans to make sure nothing more has shown up.  3 months ago, something came back on the pet scan around her gallbladder and after an ultrasound, they said it appeared to be polyps and they would monitor them and compare them to the next scan three months later because it's rare for melanoma to go to the gallbladder.  A bit more than a week ago, she had another pet scan and we got a call saying there is a 3 cm lesion on the gallbladder (much bigger than before) and there appears to be lymph node involvement with a nearby lymph node.  No, no, no.  The doctors say they are 90% certain it is melanoma that has metastasized.  We are waiting to get scheduled for a surgery consultation.  My partner does most of her care holistically (she won't do chemo or radiation and there is no research anywhere showing that it extends life for melanoma patients anyway), but is most likely going to undergo the surgery to remove her gallbladder because it definitely increases chances of survival.  So, this is the bad news.  I'm hopeful, and if anyone can do it, it's my partner.  We would really appreciate it if you keep her in your prayers.  I will do my best to keep on blogging and I don't want to make them all about this, but will definitely give updates as things change or happen.  In the meantime, we're trying to keep life as normal and routine as possible.  The 4 chicks are still good and healthy, the shop continues to come along and the garden should be finished and planted this weekend.  Yay!  It's the little things in life I never want to take for granted. 

15 comments:

  1. I am so sorry to hear your news. Prayers and positive energy going out to both of you. Hang in there and if you need to use your blog to let go of some emotions, I know it won't bother me and I totally understand.

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  2. HUGS to you both! Continuing to pray for you both. Certainly not the news anyone wants to hear, but with a positive attitude, prayer and faith, all things are possible.

    I know it's hard, but try not to stress about this, stress is a negative influence and you both need to stay positive. HUGS, wish we were closer so we could help with the animals and garden.
    Blessings,
    Kelle

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  3. I will keep you both in my prayers. And it's your blog, so say what you need to.

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  4. So sorry to hear this. Much love & positive thoughts to you both!!

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  5. You both will be in our prayers and thoughts, I agree with everyone, this is your forum, whether it is to report cute chicks, or distressing situations, we're here for you as best as a virtual group of people can be.

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  6. As a cancer survivor I can not tell you how important prayers and postive thought are to her recovery. You are both added to my prayer list. Keep us informed please.

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  7. Thank you for sharing a piece of your life that is so intimate and private. I know how hard your partner works to maintain a healthy lifestyle and this news must have been devastating. Hopeful, you are a pillar of support right now, and I'm sure that means the world to your partner. When hands are joined, amazing things happen.

    You guys are in my thoughts...

    I'm glad you continue to move forward with your projects. The chicks, garden, etc. can provide such a sense of wonder - a lot of positive energy can be found there, but I think you already know that...

    With you,


    Farmer

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  8. Sorry to read the news but you two seem to have a plan and are surrounded by so much that is positive. Count me in on the prayers and thoughts. Take it easy.

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  9. I'm so sorry to hear about this. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. It is amazing how much we come to care about our blogger friends. Take good care, Inger

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  10. thank you everyone for you kind words, positive thoughts and prayers! they are very, very appreciated.

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  11. I will pray for you both. You all have a very positive out look and that is always a great start. Keep the faith.

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  12. thinking of you and sending positive thoughts!

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  13. So sorry to hear about the bad news. My uncle is going through the same thing right now with Melanoma(sp). We will be praying for her.

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  14. I've been enjoying your posts and am adding my positive energy for your partner's recovery. Since she is using holistic care, I'll share a bit of info recently given to me by an emergent care doc. After cancer treatment I've had some lymph node and salivary gland issues, and he suggested I take wheat grass and seaweed. He said both help rejuvenate the immune system. The support of friends and family were a huge boost for me, and I'm sure your loving support is appreciated beyond measure. Take care.

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  15. My prayers are with you and your partner.

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